Sex With Devon
Sex with Devon is a videopodcast dedicated to stimulating you... resonating with your deep and innate sensuality. Devon uses our culture'...Video Episodes:
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21:32:09 07/23/08
Sex With Devon #21 - Accessing Connection
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Connecting is a skill. Accessing the Connected State is foundational in generating truly ecstatic experiences - for yourself and others. Humans are social creatures - we connect naturally. All you really need to do is learn to let go so that you're available for the connection right in front of you. Once you learn to do this, your senses open up to whoever you're with and you'll notice signals from your lover that most everyone else has missed. See Episode #17 - The Kelly Revelation for more on the Connected State.
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21:12:07 12/13/07
Sex With Devon #19 - The Default State
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For those of you who think i've forgotten about the sexy - don't you believe it. Whether you recognize it or not - we're thick in middle of it. The truth is that where i really want to go, you've got to be a little more well-versed in human consciousness than, "when do i stick it in?" And whether you realize it yet or not - the Default State is the sexiest. It is THE state to learn.
Everything starts with the Default and when you've made that true for yourself - you're in a world of...well, something before and beyond pleasure. And you'll stimulate that in others too.
The Default State is the baseline state for every person when they're at rest and it's the baseline state of you. When you are stabilized in it, you are both structurally and functionally well formed. The trick is that, for most people, being truly at rest is something they haven't done in so long they don't really know what the hell that phrase even means.
Completely at rest?
Yes. Completely. All autonomic functions working perfectly and very little other activity.
When you've released everything…the Default State remains. This is like having a Restart button on your metaphoric OS. And once you've reset, once everything of who you are is at rest, the filters of your experience are simply in a state of readiness, aligned to express You in perfect accordance with the living blueprint of who you are. Like this, learning occurs naturally, and everything you engage in comes to you more naturally. Orgasms are fuller, longer, and all-around better and you only make the best decisions that put you near and in bed with the lovers that are perfect for you.
So, for those of you ready for the real adventure - start by learning the configuration of your Default. Then start using it. Use it all over and if you have questions - let me know. This is my main passion and i'm happy to go further into with you. I'll be posting a lot more on the Default as well as the two other main states i want you to know both here and elsewhere. (i'll let you know where.) And don't worry - we'll be getting back to our regularly scheduled sexy time soon - but deeper and more intimately.
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18:03:23 11/20/07
Sex With Devon #17 - The Kelly Revelation
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Here's what i want you to do:
Watch this video and allow the image that you see in the video to become anchored to the experience you have watching the video. This will come into use a lot in upcoming episodes so the better you do it (the more intense and pleasurable you make the experience) the better it's going to feel and work later on. Believe me, this is going to be really cool, but you've got to work it to get the most out of it.
So, watch the episode, allow yourself to experience the best part of the deepest love you've ever known, deepen it, and then intentionally associate with that image, making the decision that every time you see that image it will cause you to access
that deep love.
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16:46:07 11/15/07
Sex With Devon - Late Night #002
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I got an email tonight from a guy asking what he should talk about with a girl he was taking out on a date. Simple as it was, the email inspired me to remember what's most important to me - to remember why i got into public speaking and vlogging in the first place. Here are a few thoughts. Enjoy.
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11:28:53 11/09/07
Sex With Devon #16 - Is That Your Vagina I Smell?
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Inspired by Amber Madison of www.AmberMadison.tv 's straight talk on genital scent - here are some of my own thoughts on genital scents and those frisky pheromones that cause lust in all of us. If only this were smell-o-vision !
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18:34:47 09/12/07
Sex With Devon #14 - The 5-Second Man
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Here's a quick and comical response to the ever-dreaded 5 second sex life that many men live with. This is a simple strategy you can use to instantly turn your limited lasting power to your advantage without thinking about some dude in a baseball leotard's ass while you're making love. The real key of course is to learn to feel the pleasure and master it's waxing and waning so you that you can "last" as long as you like. But, that's for another episode.
For now, enjoy this...
-- Devon
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13:08:35 09/05/07
Sex With Devon #13 - Behavioral Shareware Pt. 1
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This episode is about one of the most important concepts that we can work to spread and share in our new world - behavioral shareware. The essence of behavioral shareware is the concept that behaviors are like computer programs – things you can swap out, update and trade. If we are lucky and disciplined this will become part of the psychology of the new millennium.
Behavioral shareware is a common language for communicating states of consciousness. It helps us in learning the game of behavioral excellence without having to climb the Himalayas to find a guru.
This post helps to establish one of the foundational premises of all of the work that I do – that, unlike the suggestion of most of psychology today, change – though not necessarily easy – is logical and, when understood, simple. The idea of behavioral programs and behavioral shareware is part of that understanding.
Start using the model of behaviors being like programs and your life will become much simpler and more easily updated in every domain. That, and you'll know what the hell I'm talking about in future episodes when I refer to downloading and installing behaviors.
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13:31:33 05/22/07
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18:13:51 05/09/07
Sex With Devon #11 - Small Packages
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One of the most annoying things i ever hear in media is the seemingly endless debate about whether or not size matters. Let me put it to you this way; imagine you unzip a guys pants and there staring you in the face is a foot long can of corn. That's something. There are some big penises out there. Big Big. Like, can't get your mouth around them big. And then there are their opposites. Penises so small that you literally don't know when they are inside of you. If the average penis size is somewhere around 6 inches then you know for every 10 inch cock, there's a 2 inch one out there balancing the math.
From what i understand, girth counts more then length, or as my dear friend puts it, "You don't need to bang out the ceiling just touch all the walls." But maybe you can't. Maybe you would have to be hoola-hooping to touch all the walls. The truth is, size matters to a point and technique matters a whole lot. And just as much as either of those is attitude. If you're confident and masterful, that will go a long way.
People talk about big penises. They're wow'd by them and they don't even have to do a thing. "He was the worst lover, but holy lord was his penis big." And, truth be told, they talk about small penises too. So, the key word is Embrace. And have a sense of humor about it. Is it fair if you've got a smaller penis than you wanted? No. But, maybe you had a third leg in a former life and made poor use of it. The point is, be happy with your penis. Don't waste energy being upset with it or hiding it. Just enjoy it - it's a penis after all, and there are just so many nerve endings designed for pleasure. So use it, by yourself and with others. And use it to spur you on to being the greatest lover possible.
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20:26:04 04/30/07
Sex With Devon #10 - Confident Ignorance
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A lot of people try to learn techniques to use when they're having sex. But having sex is about the connection between you and another person. And technique coupled with a lame connection is just weak.
That said, your sex is gonna' be as powerful as your connection. And there are a lot of ways be connected:
- through scent
- through energy
- through the way you look at a person
- through your conversations, etc...
But ultimately, the essence of who each of you IS either meets, bare ass naked, panting, primal, and connected, OR IT DOESN'T. You either have a real connection with your lover - or you don't.
And of course, there are degrees. Degrees of of how connected you are.
...and you can dog paddle in the shallow waters,
or you can swim into the depths of the current...where the real treasure is buried.
This video is about diving down into the deep waters of connection.
It's the first of many.
Let me know how you enjoy it.
Devon
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17:29:39 04/07/07
Sex With Devon #8 - Becoming Unforgettable
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This is from a promo we put together for the "How to Become an Unforgettable Lover" performance I do. These particular clips are from a gig at Rutgers University.
These performances are really fun for me. They're fun for the audience too but for me, it's just such a good time to be in a room full of people who are reeking of pheromones, turned on, excited, curious, pupils dilated, skin alive and connected to the world around them. To me this is what a cultural climax is all about - a group of people aware, connected and sharing in the primal experience of life.
In any case, this is me doing what I love.
Sometimes these are funny, sometimes they're really erotic, always - they're powerful. I hope you enjoy it as much as I do.
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12:09:59 03/28/07
Sex With Devon #4 - The G Spot
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This is from a gig i did at my alma mater, Bard College, in '06. I had a blast. There are several longer versions of it with more information but the sound is so crappy (overmodulated) that we figured we'd edit for the funny stuff and drop the erudite knowledge in another episode.
For everyone at Bard that showed up for that - you guys rocked. And a big shout out to Genya for making that whole thing happen.
As for content - i think the title says most of it. Although actually i talk about the male g spot as well as the female. And female ejaculation. The end of this clip is actually the story of a friend of mine who taught me all about female ejaculation in the best way possible - by coming all over my face. and my sheets. It was awesome.
Your mission tonight, if you don't already know where your g spot is - find it and get intimate with it. If you do - celebrate together. And if you're a woman and you don't knwo how to - learn to ejaculate. (Future episodes on this topic forthcoming).
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09:49:51 03/28/07
Sex With Devon #3 - Full Body Orgasms
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More from Florida...
Whether you know the name or not, probably one of the most fretted over experiences in a lot of guy's sex lives is the point of no return - that moment before orgasm but after millions of little spermatazoa have begun their first, last, and great olympic run.
This video has some tips on how to learn your own body enough that you get to decide when and if you're gonna go beyond that point tonight.
Also, even more interesting to me is what the conversation leads to, namely, how to increase your orgasm potential. Your ability to have deep and powerful orgasms - whether you're a guy or a girl - is all about your orgasmic potential.
Feel it baby, feel it.