Intelligent Love: 411 for Men
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13:40:40 03/25/09
Sexy Bubble Baths Score BIG Points
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Destress your love with a SEXY BUBBLE BATH guarenteed to SCORE BIG POINTS and make the two of you happier campers for the night & following day. Learn some techniques on how to pamper your lover while getting her all revved up! www.joyofromance.com
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12:57:09 03/23/09
Bubble Baths Score BIG Points
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Is your love stressed out, too uptight for sex because she had a rough day at the office? You know the routine, she’s ready to jump into her sweats, curl up on the couch, and eat some comfort food to unwind from the week….. OH NO! ... this looks like the recipe for YOU AIN’T GETTING LUCKY TONIGHT. So, if you want to help her unwind, de-stress but not CRASH get ready to watch and learn some pointers. Chances are if you take these few steps, the two of you will be much happier campers.
Telling you about the benefits of sex is like preaching to the choir but dropping these factoids around your significant other may strengthen the case in her mind. So here it goes: researchers report that increasing the frequency of having sex from 1x per month to 1x per week is the happiness equivalent of an increase in $50,000 annually in your income. You can do better than that -let’s shoot for 3x because guys who have sex 3x per week also reduce their chances of having a heart attack or stroke by 50%. Plus, women who have more regular sex live longer, their bodies feel younger and overall they are more connected to their love.
You probably don’t need much convincing to have more sex what you need NOW are a few helpful hints to get her in the mood. One of my favorite suggestions is a sexy bubble bath…
If you know you are going to surprise her, get started the day before. For your information: many women are scared to take a shower let alone a bath in their boyfriend’s tub. So take time to turn the bathroom a comfortable place for her. Are the tub and floors clean? Are there are fluffy towels and a clean bath mat?
On the way home, grab a bottle of bubbly, a white wine or some vodka… grapes, a mango or an orange are all good fruits to hand feed her while she’s chilling in the tub. Maybe get some rose petals and a couple flowers to place in the bathroom. Make sure you have candles. And have something sexy or romantic to read to her.
Chill your drink in the refrigerator as soon as you get home till right before she arrives then put some ice in a champagne bucket or if you don’t have one, simply use a big bowl or a pot.
Know this before hand: does she like bubble bath products? Is there a particular scent she loves or one she hates? Make sure to get it right. If bubbles aren’t her favorite how about a few drops of essential oil or some bath salts. Finding out the answers to these questions may be an adventure unto itself.
If possible, get home before she does. Make sure the house is tidy and as mentioned the bathroom ready for her.
Have some relaxing music playing. Cable music channels like classical, jazz or love songs do wonders if you don’t already have an appropriate mix on your iPod.
Find out when she is about 15 minutes away from home. Get the elixir of choice chilling in some ice, two glasses, put the fruits on a tray in the bathroom, light candles throughout the house and turn off the lights, have the music on, reading material in bathroom and start the bathtub running a few minutes before she arrives.
When she arrives you can start undressing her at the door on her way to the bathroom or simply leave a note on the door for her to start undressing as she follows the trail of rose petals to the door of the bathroom. The only rule is no talking about work or the day’s stressors.
A little something extra to get her engines revving while you read a few erotic stories to her would be to include a toy for her bath; a water-proof vibrator like jimmyjane’s Form6, whose tagline is library friendly, pool safe. To get in the mood and eventually to orgasm, she needs to be relaxed, stressful thoughts must be completely removed from her mind. Your mind is your largest sex organ so doing a little fantasy foreplay with a little extra external help from jimmyjane is sure to lead her down the right path.
The alcoholic elixir will raise her levels of testosterone increasing her desire for sex and releasing her inhibitions. By the time you reach the bedroom, if you make it there, she will be completely in the moment, ready to either pounce on you or slide into your arms, either way she will be ready. Congratulations, you have done a great job eliminating the workday from her mind. As women orgasm, three major parts of their brains significantly decrease in activity thus they basically need to “loose their minds” when they come.
Now she can brag about you to her girlfriends. You benefit because she will be thinking about you when you are apart and she will be getting positive feedback from her friends. Now her friends’ husbands may hate you but it doesn’t matter because you are the one continuing to score big points. Thoughts of the romantic, sexy you will continue to create a powerful chemical cocktail inside her body and when she sees you the following night after work chances are her mental foreplay will have already begun. Think of it as residual income… do something one day, she thinks about it throughout the next and will want to thank you again and again.
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11:59:05 02/19/09
Aphrodisiac Tour at Whole Foods Episode 1
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Yummy foods and drinks to get your mojo flowing. Learn how to structure your meal to bring out the best aphrodisiac properties. Find out what gives you "more flow below." Join Joy Nordenstrom, Host of Intelligent Love and CEO of Joy of Romance, Inc. as she hosts Aphrodisiac Tours through Whole Foods Market preparing customers for their Valentine's Day Meal.
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11:41:31 02/07/09
Scoring BIG Points with a Killer Picnic
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Okay, getting prepared for and going on a picnic may not be your first choice in a weekend activity but this is NOT about you. Really, it is about HER , creating a beautiful experience and memory for you both. And yes, I promise you will benefit by scoring BIG points and I bet by the end of the day, you will definitely enjoy the picnic.
No matter where you live you can find some place to have a picnic. Maybe under a tree on a hill? Or how about a park with a playground. Or if it is late or starts raining you can even set up a picnic on your living room floor.
Keeping it simple is fine but it’s your attention to the details that will make her feel like she is special in your eyes and that you care enough to want to make her happy.
Let’s review the top ten essentials for our killer picnic:
One — the most important component is your date; SO make sure she knows she is the star
Two —the element of surprise if possible
Three — be forward thinking and bring a kit of toiletries for both of you in case this turns into a sleep over at a nearby B%B
Four —have a destination in mind beforehand
Five — classic picnic faire: cheese, bread, fruit, some protein- chicken, salmon, salami, a salad--pasta, lettuce or capraese salad, roasted nuts and of course something sweet
Six —Drinks, both alcoholic and non-alcoholic (remember to get some ice if you are planning on having champagne or white wine
Let’s ask some experts in Pt. Reyes Station for their advice…
Seven — Real wine glasses, utensils, cloth napkins and plates
Eight — a Blanket
Nine — a camera to capture the memories
Ten — Layers of clothes to accommodate for the drop in temperature after the sunsets
Fun extras:
Your mp3 player and speakers with a special mix for the day
A bird guide
Binoculars to watch the birds
Romantic poetry or if you know her well enough and are ready for it to get steamy, a book of erotic stories
If all goes well, this picnic will be a memory in “your story” together , so ask others to take photos and save the champagne cork from this adventure to remember it by.
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11:30:16 01/15/09
Intelligent Love On the Streets of San Francisco: Part II
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Watch and learn as women answer your most pressing questions?
Today we are picking up where I left off in the previous episode. I have gathered a few of the top questions submitted by YOU to the “Ask Joy Campaign” on my Joy of Romance website (joyofromance.com) AND have posed them to women on the streets of San Francisco. As I will be filming more episodes addressing YOUR questions and topic suggestions, I want to encourage you to please continue submitting more ideas.
Now listen and learn the answers to the following questions:
How would you encourage a man to be assertive & confident without crossing the line and becoming too arrogant or cocky?
What advice would you give a shy gentlemen on how to successfully approach you?
What is the biggest turn-off a guy can do or say when hitting on you?
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14:07:21 01/09/09
Intelligent Love On the Streets of San Francisco: Part I
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What are women looking for? How to answer women's challenging questions?
Today I am taking Intelligent Love: 411 for Men to the streets to find women to answer YOUR questions. I gathered these questions from the “Ask Joy” Campaign on my website (www.joyofromance.com). There were some great questions and suggestions; so, I encourage you to continue submitting more as you think of them.
Questions answered during this episode:
What advice would you give your guy to help him successfully answer the question “How does this outfit make me look?”
What traits do you would look for in a guy you wanted to “hook up” with?
How quickly should a guy connect with you after he gets your number?
Over and over, I heard women say they crave confident men . They detest arrogance and insincerity. SO GUYS that means NO PICK UP LINES! AND their best times have been with men who make them feel comfortable and bring out their best. Women evaluated a man’s success at this by his overall body language, eye contact and ability to engage her in conversation. Overall women want a man who is confident and empathetic. I look forward to seeing you during the next episode of Intelligent Love.
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14:33:48 12/22/08
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15:59:58 12/03/08
Joy Nordenstrom's Romance & the Pill, ABC's View From the Bay
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Host of Intelligent Love and Founder of Joy of Romance, Inc., Joy Nordenstrom speaks about the affects of women taking the pill on her ability to correctly choose a partner who is genetically best suited for her.
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20:26:27 11/25/08
Joy of Romance Massage Series Episode III: Create Your Own Happy Ending
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Are you ready to learn a secret massage technique? Our masseur has agreed to demonstrate a special massage stroke not traditionally performed during American massages. She will demonstrate a simple technique that will make your partner’s nervous system go "Ahhhhh!" and completely distress all the built up tension she has been carrying.
As I wrap up this final massage episode, I will lead your imagination to and then drop you off at the beginning of the yellow brick road to post-massage bliss. Plus, learn how incorporating a magnificent night of massage will be a winner no matter what your partner’s love language is –Acts of Service, Gifts, Quality Time, Physical Touch or Words of Affirmation.
Massage is an incredible way to bring the two of you closer, feeling more deeply connected. To learn more about intimate couples’ massage from my discussion with renowned massage expert and author Gordon Inkeles visit my blog at http://blog.joyofromance.com.
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22:18:31 11/11/08
Joy of Romance Massage Series: Part II "Focusing On Techniques and Tools"
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FOCUS on your partner, listen to her breath, feel how her body responds to your touch and pay attention to what strokes work best for her. Join Joy Nordenstrom, Founder of Joy of Romance, Inc., as she takes you into the massage room to watch as Cavallo Point Spa’s Masseur Gina Hess demonstrates the perfect techniques to give a killer massage.
Working out any tension in your love’s body will put her into a blissful state. Just remember that your largest sex organ is your brain. So the details behind choreographing the evening’s delights into a well-rehearsed dance will intrigue her mind, body and spirit. This loving act of service will wind up serving both of you.
As always, Joy’s passion is to assist you in creating passionate and thriving relationships so join her as she continues the four-part Joy of Romance’s Massage Series.
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18:04:18 11/04/08
Joy of Romance Massage Series: Part I - Setting the Stage for a Night of Bliss
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Set the stage to create the quintessential intimate date to make your love feel completely pampered and connected to you. Join Joy Nordenstrom, Founder of Joy of Romance, Inc. as she walks you through the steps to create a romantic adventure destined to leave your partner in a state of bliss.
Your endorphins will start pumping the minute you start planning this incredible evening. The adventure starts when you choose the evening, as you begin to anticipate just how surprised and delighted she will be when she finds out how you have designed an evening to treat her like a queen.
This is sure to be a loving memory to last a lifetime. It could also quite possibly become a love ritual you will want to incorporate into your relationship for years to come.
As always, Joy’s passion is to assist you in creating passionate and thriving relationships so join her as she begins the Joy of Romance’s Massage Series.
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13:50:24 10/14/08
Aphrodisiac Affair Dinners Joy of Romance Style - What Exactly is an Aphrodisiac?
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Aphrodisiacs are they fact or fiction? Joy Nordenstrom, Founder of Joy of Romance, Inc. and creator of Aphrodisiac Affair Dinner Parties, gives you the real scoop on aphrodisiacs. Learn as she categorizes those sensual morsels into three different categories. Join Joy as she brings to life bright red strawberries with chocolate slowly dripping off of them, steaming long hot stalks of asparagus and the glistening, succulent appeal of oysters.
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15:08:45 10/03/08
Intelligent Love: 411 for Men - Intro Reel
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Host of "Intelligent Love: 411 for Men," Founder and CEO of Joy of Romance, Inc., Joy Nordenstrom brings you fun and provocative information on the chemistry, psychology and practical wisdom of passionate and thriving relationships. With the 50% divorce rate, she realized there was an extreme absence of positive role models for couples that want to make their relationship not merely survive but thrive. Throughout her research, teaching, coaching and event hosting, Joy found, more specifically, there was a definite absence of materials for gentlemen geared to cultivating positive, long-term relationships. To fill that void, Joy created the vodcast series "Intelligent Love: 411 for Men".
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14:16:43 10/03/08
Fun With Virgins
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Sex is a key component in most intimate relationships. Thus, sexual health is important for healthy relationships. That is why Joy Nordenstrom, host of Intelligent Love and Founder of Joy of Romance, Inc., is talking about having “Fun With Virgins.” In this episode we will learn what exactly constitutes an "extra virgin." Plus, more about stronger erections, healthier hearts, nature’s sex vitamin and new ways to get all oiled up. One of the goals of Intelligent Love is to assist you with becoming the best partner you can be and it is the intent to accomplish this goal by encouraging you to work on yourself from the inside out. If you are in top shape physically, mentally and emotionally you are going to have a better opportunity to have a passionate and thriving relationship.
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09:55:49 10/03/08
Eating Chocolate and Laughing will Give You a Stronger Erection
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Discover the wonderful effects of increased nitric oxide made simple through the consumption of some sweets and renting a comedy.
Join Joy Nordenstrom, host of Intelligent Love and Founder of Joy of Romance, Inc. for this episode if you want to have peak performance in a relationship. She will tell you how to reduce stress, sharpen your mind and increase your endurance. One hint: you can do this in part with nitric oxide, which is increased through laughing and eating dark chocolate. So watch this episode of Intelligent Love and then go grab a box of dark chocolate, a comedy and see what springs up this evening.
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08:37:34 10/03/08
Intelligent Love: 411 for Men - Introduction Episode
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Explore the chemistry, psychology and practical wisdom of passionate and thriving relationships by watching and subscribing to Intelligent Love: 411 for Men. Joy of Romance, Inc. Founder and CEO, Joy Nordenstrom was inspired to incorporate the depth and breadth of her career experiences, plus her studies of neuroscience and interpersonal relationships, into a company designed to bring more love into the world. With the 50% divorce rate, she realized there was an extreme absence of positive role models for couples that want to make their relationship not merely survive but thrive. Throughout her research, teaching, coaching and event hosting, Joy found, more specifically, there was a definite absence of materials for gentlemen geared to cultivating positive, long term relationships. To fill that void, Joy created the vodcast series Intelligent Love: 411 for Men.















